Screening Policy

 
 
   

 

WHAT DOES IT MEAN THAT SOMEONE WILL "SCREEN" ME?

The screening process is designed to weed out people who aren't really interested in or involved in D/s -- we don't want gawkers at gatherings -- and to be sure that guests are 'safe, sane, consensual D/s lifestyle folks.

We like to know who each guest is, where they live, and phone number (all real identity details are kept confidential by whoever screens you). In the history of our group, such confidential details have never been breached. We've discovered that the requirement of giving one's phone number & other real details screens out a large number of people who don't want their identities to be known for possibly unhealthy reasons. If people aren't comfortable with a couple of people knowing who they are & how they can be reached, then we aren't comfortable with their attending our parties.

The point is that for every person in our group, SOMEONE knows who they are in real life. While guest's concern may be to protect their privacy (most understandable), OUR primary concern is that our group have in it only genuine D/s lifestyle people who are safe to have in our community... which actually protects your individual privacy in the long run.