We Welcome Novices and Experienced Players all!

I HAVE NO EXPERIENCE WITH BDSM - WILL I BE UNCOMFORTABLE?

Many of the guests are not all that experienced in the lifestyle which is fine, but we do discourage "looky-loos" from attending the parties as they could make regular guests feel uncomfortable. In general we welcome everyone and don't ask anyone what they do or how they do it. There are always several experienced players who tend to be the center of the party, mostly because we are confident and used to talking about our lifestyles. You will find the events a good place to learn about how things work.

I'M A SUBMISSIVE (OR SUB-CURIOUS). DOES THIS MEAN I'LL HAVE TO DO ANYTHING ANY DOMINATE TELLS ME TO DO AT THE PARTY?

No. Submission is a choice and is the subject of negotiation between a sub and a Dominant to establish boundaries and limitations for their interaction. If your experience is limited to cyberspace, you should know that real time involves different dynamics. You are not expected to drop to your knees at the feet of strangers when you enter the room in real time. (Unless this is a personal style choice and a way you enjoy expressing your submission, then feel free to do so.) Likewise, not every submissive feels that automatically calling every Dominant Master-Sir-Ma'am-Mistress is appropriate. Some subs feel these titles are earned through their interaction experiences, and some Dominants prefer to be addressed in this fashion only during actual scenes (or not at all).